IDK what the answer is. I get stuff like that too from time to time from people. They forget I don't drink, the think the no drinking thing was a phase, they don't believe I really can't control alcohol once I start. I just have gotten used to it. My hubbs doesn't have a drinking problem so he does stupid stuff all the time like leaving cases of beer laying around. I protect myself on this one.
Does your hubby have a drinking problem too? If he doesn't he can't be expected to understand. Another thing when I first started my recovery I was scared and fearful I wouldn't make it. I don't think my husband had that fear because he drank plenty when he was younger and just outgrew it. Is your anger at him because you are a little scared you might screw up? Sometimes I would get a little ticked because I was busting my butt trying to fix this and I didn't feel like he cared. He didn't care because he didn't get it.