His sobriety has absolutely nothing to do with yours my dear.
Now go grab a pillow and shut the bedroom door and imagine you're punching him very cartoon like right deep into his soft mushy brain and give it all your gusto.
Then go laugh at him and drink whatever he wants and come back here later and reflect (or rant if need be). If you get real frustrated, just think- cartoon pillow punch while you smile sweetly at him
You got this girl