That's what I was trying to figure out. I completely believe whole heartedly that she is a whole bag of crazy and angry. It just seemed so odd that there didn't seem to be some sort of way around dealing with her. Because I can't imagine that contact with her was helpful to his recovery in any way. Especially since the psychiatrist said husbands issues with her behavior could be contributing to his alcohol use. (Read it in his file myself-I have his medical file from the military)
So even if you think you wronged someone you don't have to contact them?