Originally Posted by AnvilheadII

IT.IS NOT.YOUR.FAULT.

he's up to no good. always has been. he's treating your home like a motel....a place to crash, shower, change and then CHECK OUT.

i am sorry. but i hope you start to really SEE what you already see. and believe what you already know.

you deserve better. your child deserves better. and HE is not likely to suddenly transform into a caring loving partner any time soon.

and whatever is IS he is doing.....trust me it ain't happy and fun. you aren't missing anything.....HE IS. but you are worth more than trying to TELL someone your worth.....if he can't see it, that is his loss.