Originally Posted by
fini 
It was her choice to END UP completely hammered.
that's easy to say, fripfrop, but may not be her experience.
many of us are brought here by experience of loss of choice.
Yes, you are right. I meant it was a choice to start in the first place, but I suppose none of us plan when we start to end up hammered,I didn't think it through.
But as Dee said, the focus should be on what mxdads options, sorry.