My one felt like 10 LOL. I am so sorry you are dealing with this, BUT it is great they are both seeking help. You need this time to catch your breath and get your bearings back. Sending hugs. JJ has been up down and all around, and has 8 months straight sobriety and will be graduating his program in one month.
That is when I will need to re-focus my commitment to not enable, worry and fret about what comes next.