Help with boundaries please!
Have not posted for abit as have been immersed in unpacking and getting settled in my condo. I have been sleeping here since June 20. I have to maintain a relationship with my AH for business purposes. When he is drinking hard I block him on my phone and stay away. He has been on a binge for days. Today he was out of line at the job site in his behaviour. They told him to leave and take some time off till he gets his head straight. I am sure there has been more then today's incident and I am sure they are aware he has been drinking often at work. So he has decided to leave tomorrow with our fifth wheel and go stay out at a ranch with a Pastor friend and of course says he's not drinking anymore. Going to get his act together etc. We all know it takes hard work and a very long time to achieve that. We both are very unhealthy and a mess. Looking for suggestions on keeping my boundary in place for the relationship without causing problems. I guess I am trying to be supportive some what but at the same time do not want to give mixed signals. We still need to have contact not daily but certainly a couple times a week for the business. If anybody has any suggestions I would appreciate hearing them. Thanks so much!