Sounds like you're doing beautifully Bunny,I think counsellors are just trying to help when they suggest getting out and meeting new people,I cut hair for a living and have a hubs,4 grown kids,a 3 year old grandson,I think that's enough people in my life to keep up with, if I went out of my way to try and keep up with more people,I would overburden myself and feel overwhelmed, I'm content with reading,exercising,keeping a clean house(full time job feels like!)gardening, cooking, I'm fine! I actually got resentful of the counselor for suggesting I do more,I just like what I'm doing😊