Originally Posted by
alwayscovering 
Maybe I will go with him that way I can make sure he stays for the meeting.
He admits he has a problem
The above I think may make for a nice new start for you two.
Then as suggested by others you may wish to find meetings for yourself ? Just like in AA meetings not all fit all. My wife tried the recommended meetings and much preferred for herself free couseling through a local church. Then we also went to the church for couples meetings and counseling together.
The above along with what was almost daily attendance for me the drunk at AA meetings along with the help of God has brought much needed healing for our family.
A nice sober day wished for all,
MB