shsirt423 and Bekindalways,,,,,,I no longer use the actual word "run" (for those in love).....I, also, try to emphasize education and nudge toward treatment...and, gently as possible...give a realistic picture....
For those who believe that their special love will make a difference....I have come to learn that almost all go away mad.
My hope is to say something that they will remember in the future that might be of value.....
I think that for most....it is a matter of the pain of staying becoming greater than the fear or leaving.......
dandylion