y'know, Dreamygal, you're a week sober.
and yes, of course you need to make decisions when they need to be made.
but maybe this one doesn't need to be made NOW??
congratulations on your week, and all the effort you're making....keep putting the sobriety-stuff first and foremost, and though you may get pressured and feel urgency, not everything needs immediate attention.
take good care of sobriety and sobriety will help you take care of other things.