I was married for 25 years or so when I left, divorced after 27 1/2 years. Sometimes you really can't believe the change in their personalities. Sometimes it was there for a lot longer then you think it was.
I can look back now and see that, but when I was in it, I don't know if I was thinking survival, or that I could still change him.
(((((((((((hugs))))))))))))
amy