RedAtlanta ~ you hit the nail on the head. Hubby DOES have it made, at my expense......all the reasons you mentioned, plus no one knows it is happening!
My post was long enough, but I left out a lot.....yes, I do enjoy his company when he is not acting like King Baby in the office. Since I left home AH has had a huge chip (Boulder) on his shoulder, and does very little to contribute to the business these days. Entitled, cold and demeaning to others, pouty. He and I are both salaried, so I guess that's yet another piece of cake for him. Coast til payday and do it all again! :-/
You're right, it IS a sh!t deal for me. Thanks for helping me to see some things.....you are entirely correct, he won't be rocking the boat. Plus, I think he has been on a personal
PR campaign the past several months, he has turned into Mr. Nice Guy (joined a civic organization, volunteering at church, etc.).....he has a motive, and who knows what type of picture he paints (however subtly) of me. I shouldn't let my guard down.
I will have to think long and hard what it is keeping me in limbo.