My mom enables addict cousin
I don't know what to do. I get angry that my mom won't detach from my cousin who uses her for drugs ...even has her drive her to get drugs then crashes on her sofa bringing her bed bugs with her. My mom refuses to cut the cord and go no contact with my addict cousin. I feel helpless and angry. I hate to see my mother go through this ..its been going on for years. I feel like I need to detach from my mom because we argue about my cousin. Do I just pretend it's not an issue to appease my mom and let her go on this way? Do I detach and distance myself from my mom? It's so frustrating. Thank you for reading .