Hi Sunshine girl, glad to have you here!
I absolutely hope you find a local Al-anon group. They work wonders! And they can provide you with the materials you need.
Also, don't forget your local library! It will carry the Al-anon books as well. I checked some out a few weeks ago and they are due today. And I know there's also a wealth of info on the internet, as you can already tell.
The most important thing to remember (at least for me) is that there are so many wonderful people out there (like here) that have gone through and are going through similar experiences, and that really makes you realize that you are not alone!
Good luck,
kate