Originally Posted by
timetohealguy 
Instead of my ex going to inpatient rehab, my ex told me that at the next appointment her therapist told my ex to end our relationship.
My guess is that the therapist said nothing of the kind - more likely he/she brought up the conversation (or perhaps didn't) and questioned your wife about her drinking, a subject she had probably managed to avoid up til then. The cat is out of the bag and someone has to pay for making things uncomfortable for her - who is a better scapegoat than you? Unless you were in the room when the therapist said she was to end your relationship, I would be highly sceptical of any second hand reports from that (or any) session