Ahhh, thx phoebe. Little one gets braces next month and that'll deplete my HSA for a bit. Given what you said I'd likely go with braces again. I can roll with it professionally and I don't mind if people see them. My teeth have drifted too. Not too bad, but I do think about it sometimes.
V, Sorry I missed the info about the stone ceremony. I'm not familiar with that. I hope all goes well.