Originally Posted by
Hawkeye13 
Show her by actions and don't talk about it anymore.
Just don't drink, and things very likely will improve greatly
Doesn't sound like they're talking at all. I'm with SolidKarma on this. You guys need to talk more. Silent treatment and guessing what's wrong are no way to have a healthy relationship. But yeah, I also agree there's a problem with the drinking, if you crave more at the time.