I always get a lot out of these type threads. I often find myself resentful and hurt by others' actions, and I always fail to consider my role in the situation. In my situation, no one will fess up and admit I've caused any harm. All I get is passive-aggressiveness. I'd much rather someone yell at me and tell me I'm a horrible person.
As alcoholics, we're left picking up the pieces of our lives and repairing the damage done to others. Sometimes it may be something you weren't aware of in our notoriously self-centered fashion. It cuts like a knife. Best thing we can do today in response is stay sober.