Glad you got through it! Not that you have to offer the info but are your neighbors aware that you don't drink?
One of the hardest parts of sobriety is needing to realize that life is going to change. There are people who will remain in your life and those who you're going to have to avoid. The latter is anyone who would not be in support of you if you refused a drink.
Also, any situation that you know is going to put you on the edge has to be avoided. It's hard but it's a must.
If you don't think you can get through don't do it.