Hi Lily the wisdom of the ages is for you to keep tight with.. we love them to bits and then they bite and give us grief... my hubby is not taking the depression meds and I can tell. he is lying to me on it. for his anger issues are the worst.. and mostly I am the bad guy.. you know when its gone south.. you are the bad guy.. no matter what you give up or have to never have again.. sorry love and prayers ardy