Originally Posted by Frickaflip233

Hi Miss

Hearbreak sucks.

So think about the above statement. The reality is, he was a jerk and wanted to use you for sex. Obviously that is not what you want, and you deserve to be treated in a way that is consistent with your needs. I had to learn the hard way that I allow people to treat me poorly. I'm not a victim and can walk away. I tend to look to men to 'save' me, 'complete' me, make me feel better. They can become my drug. But that never works.

I was broken to pieces in my last relationship. But I realized that I let it all happen. I wasn't having a gun held to my head. I learned valuable lessons.

Remember what he is, not what you 'romanticized' him to be. Kind of like alcohol huh?