people judged the heck out of me for a long time probably still do. and man did it drive me nuts. and thats about all it did.
I got to the point where iw as liek I dont care I'm gonna march to the beat of my own drum and if they dont like it thats there problem and i'm not going to make it my problem. This drove some people even more nuts because i wasnt really even receptive to there judgement anymore. Eventually I guess they realized it was there problem and they grew tired of it and left me be the way that i am.
I dunno what your program is or isnt. But your a year sober thats a good thing! Congrats!