TG, I took a lighthearted attitude towards drinking, problem drinker, drunkard, and/or alcoholic when I joined the forum. Hey, its all in good fun right? Wrong. I spent hours and hours on this forum and realized that when it comes to alcohol, for some good folks that found this website, it really was life and death. Like drinking mouthwash, vanilla extract, seizures, trips to the ER etc....and these are folks with marriages, careers and kids. Therefore to make light of it will bring you some negative attention. Hope that helps a little in terms of perspective.