I wish I'd read your post before WWIII erupted here, Bobbieka. We just had a 45 minute yelling match, me my DD and DW. It needed to happen, but a lot of hurtful things were said. We all got it all out, except DW who is still fighting, but mostly with herself. I don't want to have to lay down the gauntlet that its my sobriety or my marriage, but it could come to that. Its been laid before, and gues which lost? I am too old for this stuff.