Originally Posted by
Refiner 
JAD it all stops when you no longer depend on another person's opinion of you to form your own opinion of yourself. Other ppl's opinions are often flawed and when an A is involved, they are merely projecting their self-hatred onto the one closest to them.
I agree so much. Sadly, the closest gets the brunt of the hurt. I have to remember it's not me, it's not me, it's not me... But after you hear it over and over and over for so long. It wears on you. Erodes your soul.