^ agreed with all of that. My ex has attempted to bad mouth me and slander me to his own daughter (when the truth is he is a neglectful abusuve father that won't do anything the courts expect of him). My ex multiple times has slandered me and blamed me to his oldest for anything. I don't expect him to blame himself or his enablers as he is mentally ill but I have not attempted to alienate him-I've protected my children....there is a WORLD of difference. WTBH, you are protecting your kids from an evil (truly) person...that will hurt them on purpose and think it's ok.