Originally Posted by PinotNOmore

Those were the exact words out of my husband's mouth today. I think the exact words were "I don't see why it's so hard", and "no need to say 6 months sober or one year sober. Just do it and never look back. " Gaaaa if ONLY it were that easy. My husband is frustrated with me. He's frustrated with my "quit dates" my "promises" and my behavior when I don't keep those promises. I don't blame him for his lack of empathy, but I really wish he had a little more understanding of how hard this commitment really is. Anyhoo, I'm setting my quit date for Monday April 18th. I've been drinking on and off...weeks on, weeks off. So I know I can quit on my own. Having a few drinks tonight. Less tomorrow. And then it's go time! ...for the hundredth time. But I really freaking want this... So badly........