At this point, I'm trying to decide if I give him one last chance to go to rehab or just end it. He has never gone to an inpatient rehab.
He refuses rehab, but it is so hard to throw away 20 years of marriage even though I know it is the right thing to do.
A second chance doesn’t mean anything if you haven’t learned from your first mistake. He’s already had that second chance and so have you.