WTBH-^ word. I agree. The more he shovels your way, the stronger your resolve (and your court case should it get to that). He is not a very smart person, to put things nicely. You are a superb momma, friend, employee, SR confidant and rock star and I'm blessed to know you....we are all behind you, 100%.....now get into some therapy for this sh*t...it's worth every penny.