Originally Posted by
dandylion 
WTBH......agreed. No responding if GOOD.
Now----what about finding someone to screen all of his e-mail correspondence to you. You have agreed, (to us), that this would be the most humane thing for YOU.
Also, how about your search for a therapist for yourself that is trained in abuse?
These are things that you CAN do for yourself that will pay off, in spades, to your sense of peace....and, the feeling of getting some control back in your life.....
dandylion
I need to do both.
I've been thinking about who I can ask to screen the emails... and I'm not sure who that might be. My family is too close to the situation and would reply to him.
My former best friend would have been a great one to do this-- but she hates me because I stopped enabling her enabling of her alcoholic abuser boyfriend.
So, I'm at a loss.
In the interim I made a ***** folder titled "Loser Rants" and have decided I will add ANYTHING he sends to that so that I at least don't have to see it in my inbox.
And I need to find a therapist-- yes.
I take the kids to their therapist on Sat. I was thinking I would ask her for a recommendation then.