Hey Tansy,
I have to say that I have the utmost respect for you. You have made so many changes for your own betterment and that of your sons that are living with you.
I am so sorry about your daughters wedding, but things will work out there. I know this because my son at one point didn't want to invite me to his wedding. I do know that pain.
You are always in my heart.
((((((hugs))))))
amy