Originally Posted by
dandylion 
Ladybird.....please don't think that your are just a person to be used.....because your boyfriend is moving to Europe....
It is a DATING situation, after all.....
If you all are not at that commitment stage....you just aren't.....
There is no greater meaning than that....It sure as hell doesn't say something about your worth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You will need to destroy some of those negative self-talk tapes that play in your head.....lol...
dandylion
LOL on the negative self talk tapes. I think the fact he decided to go after he's been seeing me 9 months proved I don't mean much to him even tho he made out I did. I don't think am worthless but I do think am wising up. He wanted us to be exclusive, he discussed future plans for both of us then he changed his mind. I know it happens. I should shrug it off but it just another set back. Between my kids and him my confidence has taken a beating.