Think beyond the phone call to set up an appointment………….what is your plan? Tie him up, throw him in the back seat of your car and drag him into the Dr.’s office?
Just like you can’t make him stop drinking you can’t force him to go see a Dr. sorry Mimi it just doesn’t work that way.
In the year since you posted have you gone to al-anon or any therapy to help YOU?
Looks like your mom is trying to instill codie behaviors onto you.