Originally Posted by Thumpalumpacus

AlAnoners have a couple of things to say about this: "not my monkeys, not my circus", and "stay on your own side of the street." Checking in on your friends seems to be undermining your own recovery. Put first things first, focus on your recovery, and leave your old world behind.

As Nietzsche wrote, "when you gaze into the abyss, the abyss gazes into you." Lift your eyes to your own path. Cultivate new friends, grow a new social life, and keep your eye on the ball.