The age thing has been hard to deal with lately. My gf or relationship partner is a person I met in AA. We both relapsed and I got sober again. She drank. She is now around 60 days sober and in another country vacationing with a guy and his family. It hurts. I just feel discarded and I told her I did not want to feel this way and blocked the number. She showed up at my place. I hate the way she makes me feel.