Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy 
The price I am paying for holding him accountable is not worth it. This is now impacting my work. My stress level is at an all time high. I do not think that I can sustain this.
He has emailed me today demanding that I be available at 3 pm to drop the kids with him. I am AT WORK and can not do that.
He does not live around here and has not been around for his parenting on this day for two years.
Today, out of the clear blue he decides that he is taking a day off of work and claims he will be waiting at the police station for me to drop the kids with him at 3 pm.
So option 1: I leave work early, further impacting my job
or option 2: I assume he is bluffing and stay the course
This is hell.
Well, he hasn't met his parenting agreement for 2 years....and so you don't jump when he says and all of sudden YOU are in trouble? I don't think so.
What exactly is your parenting agreement per the divorce decree?
Go after than back child support. If you haven't don't F around about it anymore. Daddy has broken the agreement so many times its laughable. He has abused you to the point you are afraid of him even now....even when HE is the one who will be in deep doo.