The old saying "when somebody shows you who they are, believe them!!". I spent years being angry at him-but underneath all of the anger at him for treating me and our kids the way he did , I was most angry at myself for staying with him. I've still got some lingering that will take a while to work through. At least yours showed his true colors, as did mine. Over time I've become very grateful for that bc it's a constant reminder of what I left behind and will never return to. Nowadays without his demons tearing me up, my life is so much better-and I look at things so much differently. Perspective is everything. Glad you don't have any lingering doubts.