letting go is letting go of the ILLUSION of CONTROL over a situation.
Let's say the neighbors put their house up for sale....now you could spend a LOT of time worrying and fretting and freaking out about who the NEW neighbors MIGHT be.....but exactly what did that DO about the situation?
NOTHING.
and how much control do you HAVE over who buys the property??
NONE. unless you plan to buy it yourself.
and how many people get to handpick their neighbors?
NOBODY.
because it's on the other side of your FENCE.