Yeah, a break for sure is needed....
I am surprised by my reaction I guess-- but xAH would FOREVER tell me he "knew" how I felt and then would use that rationale to justify his hateful behavior, including abuse, toward me...
So I guess that is just a MASSIVE trigger for me and I can't wrap my head around any way in which I think saying that is healthy or normal...
But maybe it is... And maybe I am in the wrong here... Idk...
Im just really wound up internally and those sort of remarks just threw me for a major loop and I don't understand why exactly....