Thanks for all the replies. I'm glad I came back now. I was feeling a bit down but reading them made me see I have come a long way. I have a future to look forward to now with exciting possibilities instead of the endless same old, same old. I don't need a man in my life now.This one is treating me well but I know if that stops I can send him on his way in a heartbeat. Am looking forward to catching up with you all.xx