WTBH,
I have to agree with theuncertainty. You will never know how much power you have till you start to use it.
Sometimes I think back to the movie Dolores Claiborne, when the rich lady said to Dolores Claiborne, and my quote may be inaccurate, but I think it was "Sometimes being a b!tch is all a woman's got to hold on to. I translated that as sometimes we need to do things that we don't want to, to protect ourselves and our children.
(((((hugs)))))
amy