Originally Posted by
lostangel011 
I'm furious with him and the kid for calling me the mean controlling one.. And yeah I'm angry a lot and a bit insane these days but **** it hurts my ego but if they want to feel they are the victims of me who does their every whim then maybe that's a sign I'm better off without them afterall.
I'm so sorry for what happened! Perhaps you can use that anger to your advantage--to motivate you to do what you need to build a new and more peaceful, joy-filled life for yourself. Forgive me for not knowing the whole story, but have you taken the time to speak with an attorney yet so that you know where you stand financially? I think that may be a wise move, regardless of whether you follow through or not.