Originally Posted by Dee74

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Noones asking you to 'run from alcohol' - but I do think it's prudent to have a little respect for the relentless and insidiousness of your enemy, just for a while.

I've seen many people try and punch above their weight, too soon, and come undone.

Patience slow and steady wins the race, grasshopper

Today I can go anywhere with anyone and feel no tug, no pull, no pangs. But I put in the work to get there......

Originally Posted by tomsteve

How did you get to that point?
i worked the steps of aa. ....

before i go into any situation there is alcohol being served i have 3 qualifications:
the right motive- a legitimate reason for being there.
be in fit spiritual condition-.
have an escape route.

with those 3 very important qualifications im ok.
remove one, and especially if my motives arent right, im screwed.