My life is full of can'ts these days and he was one of the friends who actually helped me to be able to do some things -- he was a friend, with him I could do some things I couldn't do on my own or with anyone else. Good things.
Like what kind of things did you enjoy doing that now today, you feel you could only do with him?
We seem to convince ourselves that only the “dead plant” we continue to water in our minds, somehow is our ONLY salvation to happiness………………..so NOT true.