I'm in the same boat but with no wife/girlfriend. So I am still pretty much on my own. I would like a gal, but I am so irritated by the "game" of dating that I just don't want to bother right now. Trouble is I haven't totally accepted that in my head.
My 'friends' are still out there and I could go along but there's always beer involved so why torture myself.
I still haven't found anything outside of the home I'm interested in enough to do, so I haven't met any new friends yet. But I am hanging in there, almost 6 months now.