O my
I am sorry for your situation Faith.
You need legal advice pronto. I am glad you are seeking it. The house and your posessions need to be protected. How about cars and bank accounts?
No matter how friendly the 2 of you are now..that is mever the case when ego's are injured.
Years ago..
My legal separation in Md. lasted 5 years before I divorced. Wise move for me!
God will guide you but know your options before you take action.
Blessings...