Karen,
I really understand how you feel about your son and his wife. Ive got the same situation here, but add four kids to that puzzle. And, they have been in and out for seven years prior, did well for a few years. Then jobs were lost, financial picture changed up. They really had nowhere to go, so here they are again. Its starting to look up tho, finally. A long way to go yet. And all the extra stress, being what it is, makes my recovery a bit more challenging.
Hang tight, it cant be that way forever, right? So glad you are going to meetings , and praying, coming here. Hope you have a good today!