I think that a lot of people think like you described, that sobriety is like a destination... That you have to do these things in order to get off at the exit call "sobriety". But, sobriety isn't a destination, it's the road. Because even sobriety will change, when I first got sober I was usually at a meeting. Now three years later, I'm more likely to be with my family. And it's all sobriety.
Why not call your network of sober friends and ask for help? They would absolutely love to hear from you.