I definitely will visit the friends and family forum. And I understand and agree with you. I don't know that I should have used the word addicted yet....he abuses drugs and if no one was around to ever stop him or advise him, he would easily fall into addiction. But out of the year we have been together, it's only been the past month that we have had these issues. I want to get him help BEFORE he gets deep into addiction. Before it's even harder to get him to want it. Because right now he does have more sober days than not, and I can talk to him on those days. I just am terrified of the sober days disappearing altogether